Who am I when my Body Fails Me? – A Beloved Child of God

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Who Am I When my Body Fails Me? is a question we all need to ask ourselves when injury or illness takes its toll on our lives.  How are we different? How are we the same? How do we respond to mental, physical, and/or spiritual stresses? How do we view God when we are weak or in pain? Below is the most recent of several blogs on this question, several by guest bloggers. Click on Who am I When my Body Fails Me in the Category List to find the rest.

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It seems as if the tests will never end. A lab technician fills nine tubes with blood and it is determined that, among other things, that an antibody named “IgA” is running amok in my blood. More blood tests show a worsening of kidney function. A full spinal x-ray shows no bone damage. Another blood test finds too much calcium in my blood. A full body x-ray shows no bone damage. Increasing pain and numbness in my hands and arms along with hip and leg pain add new dimensions to the diagnosis. A bone marrow biopsy proves that cancer has invaded my plasma cells. We finally have found the probable cause of two blood clots and kidney issues in the past 10 months. I have multiple myeloma, a cancer of the blood that is treatable but incurable.

Who am I when my body fails me?  I am a learner. I visit website after website. I ask my new doctor question after question.  I talk to the pharmacist and the chemotherapy nurse about potent new medications. I then become a messenger and an educator trying to explain to many what I barely understand myself.

Who am I when my body fails me? I have always been planner; keeping track of my husband’s surgeries and multiple tests and appointments has always been my job.  Now I am a master planner, adding my appointments with two doctors and more lab tests and a weekly treatment session at the hematologist’s office. I am also the coordinator of transportation and chauffeur because my husband no longer drives.

Whom am I when my body fails me?  Someone who takes afternoon naps.  Someone who schedules multiple pills all through the day every day.  Someone who regularly pokes fingers to determine blood sugar counts and pokes thighs to administer insulin will now will add major weekly chemotherapy injections. Someone who has to learn to manage side effects of new medications:   The very strong dose of steroids will increase my  blood sugar. This new pill will prevent nausea. This other pill will fight off the side effect of shingles that comes with the new pill. 

Who am I when my body fails me?  I am a beloved child of a God who takes great delight in me. A God who calms me with his love and who rejoices over me with singing (Zephaniah 3: 17). I am someone who lives in the unshakable kingdom of God; no matter what happens to me, I am safe. I am someone whose greatest joy is living among others as a wounded wisdom is healed painhealer, and I recognize that this disease is another training session for that calling. I am someone who has had life-long experience with overcoming spiritual and emotional battles with the strong arm of God always holding me up. Now those arms will be wrapped around me as I struggle physically.

Centuries ago, the Israelites were hemmed in between the sea and the approaching Egyptian chariots.  They panicked!  Then Moses said, “The Lord will fight for you; you only need be still”(Exodus 14:14). Later in their history, the Israelites no longer trust the prophets that God sent to rule them; they want a king.  Samuel, very upset at their lack of faith, recounts how God has guide them and protected them in the past.  To prove God’s power, Samuel advises, “Now then, stand still and see this great thing the Lord is about to do before your eyes” (I Samuel 12:16). He calls upon God to send thunder and rain. And it thunders and rains.

 I don’t believe that God causes cancer or any other bad thing.  And there is much I can do to fight this cancer. God’s message for the Israelites and for us is clear. We are to be still and stand still. This battle against our failing bodies is not our fight. The battle will reveal God’s power.  But ultimately my life is in God’s hand.” I will be the winner of the battle, no matter how or when it ends.

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9 Responses to Who am I when my Body Fails Me? – A Beloved Child of God

  1. Coral says:

    Karen…I weep as I read this, another “Who am I when My Body fails me?” You are indeed so sure of that strong and mighty hand of God. You inspire, you educate, you encourage, you trust. Thank you for your courage. But for me, I feel angry that you have yet another battle to fight! God be with you, and may God be merciful regarding all the meds and treatments.

    • Coral, It’s interesting that I have not yet had any anger about this diagnosis. Perhaps anger is still coming, but I don’t think so. I don’t feel that it is unfair to have “yet another battle.” My “it’s not fair” false narrative has been a long time crumbling. I’m glad it’s gone so I can face this battle in its unvarnished truth. Life brings its circumstances and I try deal with them the best that I can as long as I need to. Thank you for your loving blessings.

  2. Tim Henley says:

    You also are one, who in your faithfulness to love and through your letters, brought me into a closer relationship with Jesus. Thank you for continuing to express and show that your strong foundation is continually being strengthened, even though your body may fail you. I pray today that peace will flood your thoughts and that you will find a deeply satisfying rest in the many words you have sown in our lives.

  3. Leanne McFall says:

    You are setting a good example for all of us.

  4. Jeanne says:

    If anyone can be in a good place after getting such news, I know it is you. You have been well-prepared for many, many years. And you have been paying attention.

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